Tender Loving Mercy

1907 Apple Street
Suite 8
Oceanside, CA 92054

About Tender Loving Mercy

Tender Loving Mercy offers drug and alcohol rehab and mental health treatment for individuals in Oceanside, California. They also provide valuable community resources, including eating disorder treatment, anger management, behavioral health, and couples counseling.

Treatment at Tender Loving Mercy begins with a mental health assessment to screen for symptoms of addiction or co-occurring mental health disorders. Other services include the following:

In the Intensive Outpatient Program (IOP), participants attend individual and group treatment sessions for improved coping skills, peer support, and recovery support meetings, like 12-step programs. Sessions are held 3-4 days a week.

Continuing care is an aftercare program designed to support individuals following successful completion of the IOP. Participants receive a comprehensive aftercare plan that includes relapse prevention strategies, attendance at 12-step recovery meetings, and regular check-ins with their drug and alcohol counselor.

Many major insurers, such as BlueCross BlueShield, Cigna, United Healthcare, and others, cover some or all of the costs of mental health and/or addiction recovery services when deemed medically necessary. Contact your provider to verify coverage because out-of-network benefits can vary.

Latest Reviews

JT 88
7 months ago on Google
5
Tender Loving Mercy is the best place I ve been to. It s the only place that worked for me after others didn t work out, and now I have almost 8 years sober. I ve gotten my life back and I couldn t be more thankful for Tender Loving Mercy and Lewis. Lewis is the hardest working guy I know and he is 100% the most dedicated to helping others who struggle with addiction and/ or mental health. He is the real deal, he truly cares and he ll stop at nothing to help someone succeed. He s also the best cook and will make sure you are eating good, and the food is the best. He helped me and I ve seen him help so many others over the years.
lileth winterstar
7 months ago on Google
5
Tender loving mercy has helped me so much with everything. I ve been able to fine d myself and been able to get myself together. Thank u so much for helping me with getting a second chance at life
Charlene Sanchez
1 year ago on Google
1
This place is awful! They will release your loved on Thanksgiving with no other place to go. Not to mention that they will steal your loved ones personal items and claim they can t find them. How do you misplace a 5 foot shamu stuffed animal? Also they have community meetings at a location that has at least 20 people using in front of their center for community meetings. They will not notify social security or medical that your loved one is out of jail and therefore your loved one won t be able to get medications unless someone cash pays for the medicine. They are understaffed.

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Addiction Treatments

Levels of Care

outpatient iconOutpatient
Outpatient Programs (OP) are for those seeking mental rehab or drug rehab, but who also stay at home every night. The main difference between outpatient treatment (OP) and intensive outpatient treatment (IOP) lies in the amount of hours the patient spends at the facility. Most of the time an outpatient program is designed for someone who has completed an inpatient stay and is looking to continue their growth in recovery. Outpatient is not meant to be the starting point, it is commonly referred to as aftercare.
intensive-outpatient iconIntensive Outpatient
Intensive Outpatient Programs (IOP) are for those who want or need a very structured treatment program but who also wish to live at home and continue with certain responsibilities (such as work or school). IOP substance abuse treatment programs vary in duration and intensity, and certain outpatient rehab centers will offer individualized treatment programs.
12-step icon12-Step
12-step programs are addiction recovery models based on Alcoholics Anonymous (AA). A number of substance abuse programs (including some drug and alcohol rehab centers) use the 12 steps as a basis for treatment. Beginning steps involve admitting powerlessness over the addiction and creating a spiritual basis for recovery. Middle steps including making direct amends to those who've been hurt by the addiction, and the final step is to assist others in addiction recovery in the same way. 12-Step offshoots including Narcotics Anonymous (NA), Cocaine Anonymous (CA), Dual Recovery Anonymous (DRA), Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous (SLAA) and Gamblers Anonymous (GA).
aftercare iconAftercare Support
Completing a drug or alcohol rehab program shouldn't spell the end of substance abuse treatment. Aftercare involves making a sustainable plan for recovery, including ongoing support. This can include sober living arrangements like halfway houses, career counseling, and setting a patient up with community programs like Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) or Narcotics Anonymous (NA).

Treatments

The goal of treatment for alcoholism is abstinence. Those with poor social support, poor motivation, or psychiatric disorders tend to relapse within a few years of treatment. For these people, success is measured by longer periods of abstinence, reduced use of alcohol, better health, and improved social functioning. Recovery and Maintenance are usually based on 12 step programs and AA meetings.

Drug rehab in California teaches participants constructive ways to stay clean and sober. Treatment revolves around helping individuals stop using the substance they are addicted to and learn healthy habits to avoid relapse.

Many of those suffering from addiction also suffer from mental or emotional illnesses like schizophrenia, bipolar disorder, depression, or anxiety disorders. Rehab and other substance abuse facilities treating those with a dual diagnosis or co-occurring disorder administer psychiatric treatment to address the person's mental health issue in addition to drug and alcohol rehabilitation.

A combined mental health and substance abuse rehab has the staff and resources available to handle individuals with both mental health and substance abuse issues. It can be challenging to determine where a specific symptom stems from (a mental health issue or an issue related to substance abuse), so mental health and substance abuse professionals are helpful in detangling symptoms and keeping treatment on track.

Opioid rehabs specialize in supporting those recovering from opioid addiction. They treat those suffering from addiction to illegal opioids like heroin, as well as prescription drugs like oxycodone. These centers typically combine both physical as well as mental and emotional support to help stop addiction. Physical support often includes medical detox and subsequent medical support (including medication), and mental support includes in-depth therapy to address the underlying causes of addiction.

Programs

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Adult Program
Adult rehab programs include therapies tailored to each client's specific needs, goals, and recovery progress. They are tailored to the specific challenges adult clients may face, including family and work pressures and commitments. From inpatient and residential treatment to various levels of outpatient services, there are many options available. Some facilities also help adults work through co-occurring conditions, like anxiety, that can accompany addiction.
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Program For Men
Men face specific challenges and concerns when seeking addiction treatment. Gender-specific recovery programs help them tackle these issues head-on in an environment that's focused, targeted, and distraction-free. It also gives them the opportunity to connect with and learn from other men who have been through a similar journey and can offer support for the next step.
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Program For Women
Rehabs for women provide a safe, nurturing space for female clients to heal. These treatment programs consider the specific obstacles that women can face during recovery and place a special emphasis on mental, social, physical, and reproductive health. They explore how each woman's experience has shaped the trajectory of their substance use, addressing issues such as sexual abuse and past trauma.
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Young Adult Program
Young adulthood can be an exciting, yet difficult, time of transition. Individuals in their late teens to mid-20s face unique stressors related to school, jobs, families, and social circles, which can lead to a rise in substance use. Rehab centers with dedicated young adult programs will include activities and amenities that cater to this age group, with an emphasis on specialized counseling, peer socialization, and ongoing aftercare.

Clinical Services

Whether a marriage or other committed relationship, an intimate partnership is one of the most important aspects of a person's life. Drug and alcohol addiction affects both members of a couple in deep and meaningful ways, as does rehab and recovery. Couples therapy and other couples-focused treatment programs are significant parts of exploring triggers of addiction, as well as learning how to build healthy patterns to support ongoing sobriety.

Research clearly demonstrates that recovery is far more successful and sustainable when loved ones like family members participate in rehab and substance abuse treatment. Genetic factors may be at play when it comes to drug and alcohol addiction, as well as mental health issues. Family dynamics often play a critical role in addiction triggers, and if properly educated, family members can be a strong source of support when it comes to rehabilitation.

Group therapy is any therapeutic work that happens in a group (not one-on-one). There are a number of different group therapy modalities, including support groups, experiential therapy, psycho-education, and more. Group therapy involves treatment as well as processing interaction between group members.

In individual therapy, a patient meets one-on-one with a trained psychologist or counselor. Therapy is a pivotal part of effective substance abuse treatment, as it often covers root causes of addiction, including challenges faced by the patient in their social, family, and work/school life.

Contact Information

Phone icon (760) 757-7833
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1907 Apple Street
Suite 8
Oceanside, CA 92054

Edited by:
Anna Spooner

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2.9 (16 reviews)
lileth winterstar
7 months ago
5

Tender loving mercy has helped me so much with everything. I ve been able to fine d myself and been able to get myself together. Thank u so much for helping me with getting a second chance at life

JT 88
7 months ago
5

Tender Loving Mercy is the best place I ve been to. It s the only place that worked for me after others didn t work out, and now I have almost 8 years sober. I ve gotten my life back and I couldn t be more thankful for Tender Loving Mercy and Lewis. Lewis is the hardest working guy I know and he is 100% the most dedicated to helping others who struggle with addiction and/ or mental health. He is the real deal, he truly cares and he ll stop at nothing to help someone succeed. He s also the best cook and will make sure you are eating good, and the food is the best. He helped me and I ve seen him help so many others over the years.

Charlene Sanchez
1 year ago
1

This place is awful! They will release your loved on Thanksgiving with no other place to go. Not to mention that they will steal your loved ones personal items and claim they can t find them. How do you misplace a 5 foot shamu stuffed animal? Also they have community meetings at a location that has at least 20 people using in front of their center for community meetings. They will not notify social security or medical that your loved one is out of jail and therefore your loved one won t be able to get medications unless someone cash pays for the medicine. They are understaffed.

Annette Soto
2 years ago
1

I was there in 2015 after my dad's death I hadn't used in 28 years but after my dad died, I used, my probation officer put me here against my will, which one of my housemates broke protocol and I told her about it and the owner told me to leave with no phone or money, I had to borrow a phone and ride to the police department from a stranger, the sergeant said the owner was wrong, to make a long story short the owner had the audacity to tell me to come back in three days for my property which was entirely illegal he's lucky I didn't press charges against him because that's what the sergeant had suggested, I would have had the place shut down, I would give less than one star but that's not possible, money oriented only, ******please don't go here to get sober *****. If you ask me TLM stands for torture, lies and mayhem.

Jacob Teign
3 years ago
5

I was lost, clueless, and facing 3 years in prison when I first came here and over the past year I've learned taught respect, integrity, and accountability and now I'm 6 months sober and actually willing to live soberI have felt really welcome here and the staff has been very understanding. All houses have ocean views this has to be one of the best treatment facilities available, if not the best in.

Shane A
3 years ago
1

Seek treatment elsewhere! Avoid! You have been warned!

Andrew Randhawa
5 years ago
3

Great experience, but overall wouldn't recommend this program. Great events for fourth of July, weekly outings, and family members. Too expensive, and poor shelter for clients. Too many rules to follow. None of the staff is really certified.

S F
6 years ago
1

OMG! Run in the opposite direction! This place is only good for those seeking a prison-like atmosphere. The only difference is that there are no bars. This is NOT sober living. When I called TLM to find out what their sober living was about I was told it was a beautiful 5 bedroom home with lots of storage etc. When I got to the house I was mortified! The living conditions are deplorable! I literally could not believe my own eyes! You're not even allowed to cook your own food and the refrigerators are locked. You eat WHAT they say and WHEN they say. And the food is disgusting! The Staff members are extremely controlling! They listen to private phone conversations and Interrupt them with their input so they eavesdrop! I lasted only one night and didn't sleep at all And when I met with staff in the morning to say that I knew without any doubt I was in the wrong place, the owner turned into a complete bully! They use intimidation tactics to get you to stay and talk over you so that you cannot complete a single sentence. When I told them I was leaving the program they made me leave the property immediately without my belongings. It's clearly all about money!HORRIBLE EXPERIENCE!!!!!Oh I forgot to mention, they wont give a refund for the months rent that was paid even though I was only there for 15 hours and have refused to give me copies of any of the papers I signed!

Juan Gran.
6 years ago
5

This place was made with strong ethics in helping people with drug addictions/alcoholic addictions as well as behavioral modifications with structured program. As people who help other people, know that it's not easy with these diseases of addiction and that everyone needs help in life. For this place to be here and helps in anyway shape or form, is a blessing because they will help you as best they could! Even if you don't decide to get into this place or have family come or whatever the situation is, they still give you other places or recommendations to other programs or shelters just to help anyway they can.

Kristine Murray
6 years ago
5

This place is incredible! Luis and staff are super caring and helpful in finding solutions that work their clients. The whole staff is caring and compassionate and they work from their hearts.

bryan box
6 years ago
2

I think this rating completely justified. Just read what others are saying. I ll change my rating if I get a real apology!

Terri Larson
6 years ago
1

agree This place was a joke not professional at all. I had my son there they were not monitored at all ,doing drugs wide open, extremely rude staff very dissatisfied would not recommend to anyone, all my sons belongings were stolen when we went back to collect them

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